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Even though the media has focused on the famous bird flu and the possibility of a pandemic , we can't forget that our usual flu season is approaching. The CDC is still recommending that infants between 6 months and two years be vaccinated. And for older children with respiratory conditions such as asthma or heart disease the recommendation to get the flu shot is the same. But for older kids and even adults who don't get immunized, here's some advice on how to prevent, recognize, and treat influenza.

How can I prevent my child from getting the flu?
Although there is no perfect way to avoid the flu, the CDC recommends the following steps:
Avoid close contact with people who have symptoms of the flu. If there is an outbreak in your community, use common sense to decide whether to allow your child to go to unnecessary activities. Schools and daycare centers will often close for a few days if there is an outbreak. Wash your hands and your child's hands with soap and water. Don't let your small child put other children's toys in his or her mouth.

How do you know if my child has the flu?
The symptoms are very specific and include high fever (usually lasting 4 - 6 days), sore aching muscles, generalized weakness, headache, pain behind the eyeballs, a sore throat and hacking cough.

What can I do to make my child feel better?
The uncomplicated flu lasts 7 - 10 days and does not respond to antibiotics.  Treatment includes plenty of fluids, bed rest and acetaminophen or ibuprofen for fever, headache and body aches.  For cough, try a mixture of honey and lemon (if older than 1 year), non-caffeine teas or an over the counter (OTC) cough suppressant containing DM (Dextromethorpan). Remember, to prevent Reye's syndrome, a potentially fatal illness, never give aspirin to your child or adolescent with the flu.

What are the complications of the flu?
Although the majority of patients including children will recover fully, some patients will become seriously ill and require hospitalization. More serious complications include pneumonia, encephalitis (inflammation of brain tissue) and serious secondary infections with bacteria.

When do I need to call the doctor?
If your child is having difficulty breathing or catching his or her breath.
If your child appears disoriented or extremely weak. If the cough is persistent or worsening, or if it is keeping your child from sleeping. If you suspect your infant (under 1 years old) has the flu, especially if he/she has a high fever and cough which persists for more than 3 days.  NOTE: Any infant under 2 months with a fever (rectal temperature of 101 or greater) must be seen. If your older child has a high fever for more than 5 days, a worsening cough (with or without chest pain), a headache for more than 5 days or a headache which is getting worse or accompanied by a stiff neck.


COLD OR FLU?
Once the arrival of the flu in a neighborhood makes the headlines, parents begin to worry about every sniffle. So how do you know if your child has a cold or the flu?

The common cold lasts about 9-10 days and is sometimes described as three days coming, three days here and three days going. The first three days your child may have a fever. In infants and toddlers the temperature might reach 103-104, but after giving some acetaminophen or ibuprofen, the temperature will be lower and your baby will seem better. In older children there might be a low-grade fever or none at all.  But here comes the runny nose. A cold always causes a runny nose, but the flu usually does not.

During the middle phase of a cold, a child may develop a cough because of the congestion from the nose, however it will not be a deep or hacking cough, and usually there is no chest pain as you will have with the flu. During this time the fever is usually gone, and your child might be back to their activities, despite the runny nose and mild cough.

The final three days is when the mucous starts to thicken and become crusty. At this point it's just wiping the nose and using humidifiers to help your child breathe easier at night.

The symptoms of flu are very specific and include high fever (usually lasting 4 - 6 days), sore aching muscles, generalized weakness, headache, pain behind the eyeballs, a sore throat and hacking cough.

The uncomplicated flu lasts 7 - 10 days and does not respond to antibiotics.  Treatment includes plenty of fluids, bed rest and acetaminophen or ibuprofen for fever, headache and body aches.  For cough, try a mixture of honey and lemon (if older than 1 year), non-caffeine teas or an over the counter (OTC) cough suppressant containing DM (Dextromethorpan). Remember, to prevent Reye's syndrome, a potentially fatal illness, never give aspirin to your child or adolescent with the flu.

About the Author
Dr. Mary Ann LoFrumento, MD, F.A.A.P., pediatrician, mother and author, has more than 20 years experience answering parents' questions about how to raise their children. She recently launched Simply Parenting, a book and DVD series designed to end parents' anxiety and insecurity and bring parenting back to basics.
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The Tailor's Gift
A new holiday tale that highlights this message of giving is
The Tailor's Gift: A Holiday Tale for Everyone by David M. Stern with illustrations by Dave Zaboski.
In light of some recent disasters in the U.S., and the holiday season, The Tailor's Gift is a perfect message for children everywhere.  Gratitude, no matter what material things one has, is wonderfully demonstrated.
RC Soccer Game-Kick It! is "totally awesome!"  At least that's what my daughter says.  This is an easy-to-control remote control soccer game for two players that is loads of fun.
Battat Dinner Party 4-pc. Dinnerware Set is available only at Target stores.  These are probably the best made toy dishes I've ever seen.  They are microwave and dishwasher safe, and extremely durable.
Featured left, a doll from the Les Cheries collection, is just one of Corolle's award winning dolls. The quality of their dolls have won separate awards for their hair, their clothing, and more.  All of their dolls are meant to last, made with realistic clothing and hair, and are reasonably priced.
Violet the Pilot In...France and Canada...are books written by Bettina Jenkins Bathe. She has been flying airplanes as a Commercial Pilot since 1988.  From her own experiences, she shares with children stories about adventures to different countries, by letting them travel along with Violet the Pilot, a bubbling girl who teaches her readers culture as she entertains them with neat facts and wonderful pictures.
Live, Work And Play On The Farm:  Kids will delight to see Johnny Tractor (J.T.) and his friends Allie Gator and Corey Combine who live, work and play at Merriweather Farm. Follow their adventures as they plow the fields, take care of the farm animals, and harvest crops.  Deerfield Valley also available.
Dec. 2005/Jan. 2006
Barbie Dolls -
Where Did They Come From?

by Barbara White

Dear Santa, Please can I have a Barbie doll for Christmas?

Barbie dolls have probably been on Christmas wish lists for several generations of girls. In fact Barbie has become a household name for many years. Who created the first concept of the Barbie doll?

The story started with the birth of Ruth Mosko in Denver Colarado in 1916. Ruth married Elliot Handler in 1938. Elliot Handler and his business partner Harold ‘Matt  Matson formed the company Mattel. The name was created by a combination of their names ‘Matt-Ell". Mattel originally manufactured picture frames, but after making dolls furniture from scraps decided to focus on toy manufacturing for which Mattel is now famous.

Ruth Handler noticed that her young daughter Barbara was more interested in playing with adult dolls, than the baby dolls that were available at that time. While traveling in Europe she saw a German doll called ‘Lilli  which she bought for her daughter. The original ‘Lilli  doll was not a children’s toy, but a joke style gift for men.

Mattel bought the marketing rights for ‘Lilli’. They changed the doll’s name to Barbie, named after Ruth’s daughter Barbara. Barbie was first released for sale in the United States in 1959 and became a hot seller. Barbie’s boyfriend ‘Ken  was introduced in 1960. Ken was named after Ruth’s son Kenneth.

The Barbie doll was first displayed at the New York International American Toy Fair on March 9, 1959. This date became Barbie’s official birthday .There is now a fictional biography of the life of ‘Barbie  with additional family and friends created and sold as separate dolls.

The first Barbie doll wore a black-and-white "zebra-striped" swimsuit and signature topknot ponytail with tightly-curled bangs. The dolls were available either as blonds or brunettes. In succeeding years, Barbie dolls were made available with other hair styles and colors. The doll was marketed as a "Teen-age Fashion Model", so many fashions were available for her as well. Barbie's wardrobe was designed by esteemed Mattel fashion designer Charlotte Johnson, whose inspiration came from the fashion runways of Paris.

About the Author
Barbara White is not related to Barbie and does not have as many outfits. To browse through some of the many versions of Barbie and her outfits which have been produced since 1959 visit www.barbiworld.com For more great articles check out Barbara’s free article submission directory www.articlesbeyondbetter.com