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Spring,  2006
Stylish Ladies Law #3
Body Balancing
by Kate Rice-Jones
Your Life! Style Editor
Your Life! Magazine All rights reserved.  Copyright 2004, 2005, 2006 Your Life! Media
As a T.V. style expert, I have appeared on 100's of cable makeover shows assisting women of all shapes and sizes in their fashion transformations.  My role has been to select clothes that transformed each of these makeover candidates into a new, improved and more fashionable version of their former selves.  Although this role could sometimes be challenging, through trial and error one thing became abundantly clear.  I found that I could use clothes to visually transform a candidate's body shape so as to appear more hourglass, consistently delivering incredible makeover results.  Each time, at the show's big reveal, the candidate looked more youthful, shapelier, thinner and more feminine.  The magical thing about this discovery was that no matter what a candidate's body shape or size, the "right" clothes could visually redistribute her weight to appear more hourglass.  I decided that this simple dressing technique needed a name; I call it "Body Balancing."

My Body Balancing technique does not involve expensive surgeries, fad diets, starving or boot camps.  It simply asks you to examine your body shape and consider where their body might be "out-of-balance."  To properly Body Balance follow these three steps:

1.  Determine Your Body Shape - If You Were a Fruit What Kind of Fruit Would You Be?
Before you can determine where you are out-of-balance, you first need to determine you body shape.  Women's body shapes tend to fall into five general fruit shapes:  
Pear: Hips fuller than chest and shoulders
Inverted Pear: Shoulders and bust fuller/broader than hips
Orange: Full chest, tummy and hips
Apple: Evenly distributed weight but heavy
Balanced Squash (Hourglass):  Bust and hips equally full with small defined waist. Bust and hips are roughly 10 inches wider than waist (and, yes it is a fruit!). 

Figure out which of these delicious fruits you are and you will be on your fashionable way.

2.  Are You Body Balanced?
Now it is time to compare your fruit shape to that of an hourglass.   An hourglass is balanced.  Its top is the same volume as its bottom and both top and bottom are wider than its center.    Let's imagine you are pear-shaped with your hips and rump much fuller than your chest and shoulders.  When you compare your pear to the hourglass, you can see that in contrast you are bottom-heavy and for these purposes out-of-balance.

Once you have figured out where or if you are out-of-balance, it time to work with the beautiful body you do have.   Let's go back to my previous example, using the pear-shape.  To look less bottom-heavy and more balanced, you must choose clothes that "counter-balance" of your shape.  For instance, as a pear, you would want to buy clothes that diminish your hips and rump and emphasize your chest and shoulders while they also narrow your waist.  Don't worry these kinds of magical clothes exist and once you learn how buy "right" colors, patterns, silhouettes and textures for your fruit shape, you will find them everywhere!

3.  Discover The Clothes That Flatter You - Complimentary Clothes
Selecting the "right" clothes for your fruit shape is the most crucial step when Body Balancing.  It is your job (and mine) to find clothes in your closet and elsewhere that work for you, it is your clothes job to put your fruit shape back "in-balance".  Below is a short list of general clothing items that are my picks for Body Balancing each fruit shape.
Pear- shaped:
        Enhance Your Top
        
Shirt jackets
        Light colored Tunics
        Padded Bra
        Pockets
        Ruffles!
        Horizontal stripes
        Jackets fall after widest point of your hips
        Blazers open
        Small to medium shoulder pads

        Narrow Your Bottom
        Solid, Dark Colors
        Avoid Patterns
        Vertical Stripes

        Skirts at the Knee
        Avoid anything too tight
        A-line skirts!
        Avoid miniskirts
        Pants start below natural waistline 
        No big cargo pockets
Inverted Pear-shaped
         Broaden Your Bottom
         
Patterned bottoms
         Full and gathered skirts
         Belts
         Light colors
         Lighter washed denim
         Pant details like pockets
         
        Diminish Your Top
         
V-Necks
         Long layered jewelry
         Dark colors
         No pockets
         No boat necks
         Button down shirts
         No shoulder pads
Orange-shaped
        Create Your Waist
        
Dusters with belts
        Princess seam blouse
        Blazer - nipped at waist
        Vertical lines
        Dark colors

        Elongate Your Body
        
Vertical stripes
        Heels
        Long scarves and jewelry
        No horizontally striped belts
        Shirt jackets
        Duster
        Tunics
        Monochromatic dressing
Apple-shaped
        Slim Down Chest and Tummy
        
Dark tops
        Shirt jacket with fitted tanks
        Wrap-tie blouses
        Belted jackets!!
        Wrap-tie dusters

        Shrink Your Hips
        
No pocket jeans - trousers
        No horizontally striped belts
        A-Line skirts
        Flat front pants
        Tulip skirts
Balanced Squash
        What Enhances Your Shape
        
Keep clothes in proportion to your curves
        Medium rise pants
        Fitted or ribbed sweaters
        Fitted jackets
        Fitted skirts

        Insults Your Shape
        Boxy clothes
        Large patterns
        Gathered skirt

For more information about "Body Balancing", look for Kate's book "The Style Method" available in late 2006
How To Care For Your Pearl Jewelry
by Brian Roberts
Pearls are an investment. As such, proper care should be used protect the luster and beauty of your pearls, while providing many years of enjoyment. Below are a few tips to help you care for your pearls.


Store Pearls Separately
Pearls are much softer than the majority of gemstones and precious metals. If stored with other jewelry, they can become easily scratched or damaged.

Store Pearls In Soft Material
Ideally, you should store your pearls in a soft cloth pouch, linen cloth, or soft lined jewelry box. These will help prevent the pearls from being scratched or damaged.

Minimize Contact With Personal Products
Personal care products, such as hairspray, makeup, and perfume, contain chemicals that can harm the pearl's surface and dull the pearl's luster. To minimize this type of contact, use personal care products first before putting on pearls.

Minimize Contact With Perspiration
Perspiration contains natural acids that can harm the pearl's surface and dull the pearl's luster. To minimize this, remove pearls before exercising or doing strenuous activity.

Clean Your Pearls After Wear
Gently wipe your pearls with a soft damp cloth after wear. This will help to remove any build-up on the pearls. Do not use anything abrasive as this may damage your pearls.

Periodically Wash Your Pearls
Periodically wash your pearls to help remove harmful build-ups. Wash your pearls in soapy water using a mild liquid soap (not a detergent). Once finished, gently rinse and place on soft towel or cloth to dry. Do not hang pearls to dry as this may stretch the silk thread.

Restring Your Pearls
To prevent breakage, you should have your pearls restrung periodically. For example, if you wear your pearls frequently, you should have them restrung annually. Pearls should be restrung with silk thread and knotted between each pearl. The knot prevents the pearls from all falling of the thread if there is a breakage, as well as prevents the pearls from chafing each other.

About the Author
Brian Roberts is the President of Select Pearls , one of the largest on-line pearl retailers in Canada.
What Makes A Great Pair Of Shoes?
By Shelley Costello

Shoes, shoes, shoes. Find me a woman who can resist them.


A recent survey which was conducted in the United Kingdom showed that women spend around £79,200 [$138,300] each on shoes over their lifetime - taking three months to shop for them.

More than half have owned five pairs
they have not worn. A third have so
many pairs they have lost count
and the thousands of women
who participated in the survey
said "nothing else in your
wardrobe makes you feel so
fabulous".

There are so many different styles
and designs launched every season
it's just too hard to choose. We all have those impulse buys where you just fall in love with a pair. Then there are those you buy that you find you only ever wear a couple of times because they are just too high or too impractical but what makes a great pair of shoes?

Is it the heel, the design, the material, the style perhaps? Is it because they are in fashion, flat, boring, bright, colourful or dazzling perhaps? A great pair of shoes is really what they are to you.

Take a flat and very plain looking shoe.
For someone those will be a great pair
of shoes. Take a bright high heel with lots
of detail, those will be a great pair of shoes.
Take boots, tennis shoes, slippers, loafers,
pumps, sandals, thongs and every shoe you
can think of and they are all, in their own right,
great pairs of shoes.

The greatness is in the eye of the beholder. Whatever shoes you buy are a direct result of who you are as a person. Believe it or not our actions are a direct result of our feelings and our feelings are a direct result of our attitudes. When choosing shoes there is no variation to this theory. Shoes make you feel so fabulous because there is part of you shouting from your feet. They are a very personal choice and say absolutely everything about you.

Puzzled?
Want to know
more about shoes?






The Womens Shoes Guru website provides a comprehensive guide to choosing womens shoes online. Visitors are given information on the benefits of womens shoes, the history of shoes and a clear understanding of shoe designs.